Misconceptions about parenthood

                                                    Lucky are those who are blessed with mother and father. Parents are the living God around us on the universe. A feel lucky to be able to right this article on the contrary I am ashamed I am writing this for certain parents or a misconceived notion about parenting.

Starting with the very fact that Parents are considered parallel and above Gods, but no where it specifies they own their children's. Different parents in the periphery have behaved differently over time to keep a change of thoughts and notions about how exactly parenting can be.

What parenting means?  The process of raising children and providing them with protection and care in order to ensure their healthy development into adulthood. Hopefully everyone agrees with the definition above, Is there any phrase promising the ownership ?? NO !!!

An uneducated parent who become authoratative  just to boast about there parenting are burden and murderers of the young generations who actually wants to excel. Parenting no where allows anyone to rule over their kids.

According to modern bifurcations Parents can be of 4 different types permissive, authoritative, neglectful and authoritarian.

Parenting never was a resultant of having sex, but for the illiterates it was and it is. Let's be open to this because I am proud of my parents and trust is the key among us, they understand and show believe in my discison also they point out my faults as and when required. They never questioned me for the decision I made but yes to maintain the quality they have always been the best source.

Not falling in depth of their definitions because it is self explanatory. Yet it is very important to talk about what all should be done by parents to be meaningful of their word. Parents should be synonym to understanding guider. There have been certain instances in past and even to one of the person who meant world to me. They are not in this world to read this post just because of the ill-mannered illiterate parents who were authoritative, not even ready to understand the mental problems their child was going through, what else could be said to these parents clearly in my understanding they are a murderer.  

It would be easy to say that parents are the one behind the successful souls and also behind the one in the graveyard. We can only understand the above line if we are on the same page, I know our society and the stereotypes will say that talking such things about parents is not good, (sanskar nhi hai etc), but trust me I don't give a f**k about it, my parents would proud to read this article by me. Everyone in this world should have parents like me.

Understanding, guiding, nourishing, improving and loving makes you a parent not giving birth, its a biological process even dogs have and are parents to some, please read it again.

Happy Parenting !!!